Get Fired Up! Stop Looking For That Superstar and BE ONE!

by lmorris

Are YOU The Leader People Are Looking For? Have you considered lately how hungry people are to be uplifted, inspired, and LED? The industry is loaded with people out there looking for the “hitter”, or the “big fish” they can land in their business, that can bring over a down line, or at least a SUPERSTAR that will go to work, build their compensation plan, and sponsor a bunch of people!! Sound familiar? This is a very common desire and one that we hear every day. Fall out, or attrition, gets a little disconcerting sometimes, and every day it feels like you have to keep sponsoring people faster than they can quit. Duplication, and a fast growing, on fire group that TAKES ON A LIFE OF ITS OWN…that’s pure magic. When it happens to you, it’s the most exciting phenomenon, that you want to pinch yourself, because you can’t stop it if you try!!

Guess what. There’s a secret we’re going to let you in on, that the  Alpha Leaders know, a million dollar secret. It’s called the “I AM”. When you KNOW who you are, and your BELIEF in YOU is so high that YOU DON’T move.. (it’s called posture) people will naturally be drawn to you and whatever you have! They will want to do business with you because they will sense you are “IT”, and someone they can trust, someone who is constantly giving, loving and caring about others.  You MIGHT share your opportunity with them IF they are extremely lucky…but it’s down on the list, because you don’t need to even mention it. Of course you WILL, because you have the Goose that laid the golden egg! Remember, your belief level SHOWS all over your body language, and if you get it right…People just naturally want whatever you have. It’s the “music behind the words”. It would not even matter what you said!! People have to have your product, and opportunity, just to play with you, and be a part of what you are doing.!

Remember that thing called the Law Of Attraction? What does Law Of Attraction say: Like attracts Like OR That which is like unto itself is drawn. So, Would it not make sense that if we are directing all of our attention outward “looking” for that Leader, Superstar etc, it would stand to reason, that we inwardly believe our business, “lacks”, we lack, and do not shine that dynamic inspiring “fired up” energy outwardly!! Make sense? What I mean is this: A wise sponsor told me many years ago: “Stop searching for that leader, and start BEING the one they’re looking for, and your business will be set on fire in no time!” Indeed it was, and I went to the Top 10 and won a Carribean Cruise!

Many people are wandering out in the dark looking for that beacon of light, and they are looking to be uplifted by people who KNOW EXACTLY WHERE THEY ARE GOING. Do you know where you’re going? Are you emanating the LIGHT and FIRE of a TOP 10 Leader or even a #1 Leader? If not I invite you to sit down and look at why not. You can inspire your people, and lead them to the top, even if you only have a handful, because they will feel your passion, and they will want what YOU HAVE. They WILL WANT TO GO WHERE YOU ARE GOING!!  So watch this video, and Take my challenge this week to BECOME the LEADER PEOPLE ARE LOOKING FOR!!

Special Credit to Matthew Belinkie at for this amazing video!

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1 pronostic pmu December 6, 2012 at 9:09 am

Thank you for your article (and please excuse me, English is not my mother tongue), do you write a second part to cover the subject entirety? In all cases, it’s a topical issue that will have to be treated in this way more often. Regards, Roger.


2 Selena October 21, 2011 at 6:45 pm

First off I want to say awesome blog! I had a quick question which I’d like to ask if you do not mind. I was interested to know how you center yourself and clear your mind before writing. I’ve had a tough time clearing my thoughts in getting my thoughts out there. I truly do take pleasure in writing however it just seems like the first 10 to 15 minutes are generally lost simply just trying to figure out how to begin. Any suggestions or tips? Thank you!


3 Perry A Davis Jr March 25, 2011 at 4:46 pm

Thanks for this excellent post. We hear so much about attraction marketing, but little about the fact that we have to develop ourself. We can only attract what we are (like attracts like) it is not the systems and methods, but the person. As always you cut through the hype and get to the heart of the matter.

Perry A Davis Jr
Music City USA


4 Hazel-Ann La Fortune March 16, 2011 at 10:03 pm

Thanks for this wonderful post. I totally share these sentiments. Ghandi said it like this, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” When we stop looking outside for leadership and instead focus on becoming the leader, we will experience dramatic changes for the better. In fact, others will naturally be drawn to us. Great inspiration!


5 KellieHosaka March 13, 2011 at 5:29 am

Aloha Laura,

I totally agree wit you! We are the leaders people are looking for! Once we stop looking around and just start BEing ourselves, everything flows! It’s actually so much easier, like going downstream!

Thank you for that awesome video also!

Kellie :)


6 Larry & Laura Morris March 15, 2011 at 8:08 pm

Aloha Kellie,
first of all I loved meeting you last week and getting to know you better! Thanks for the great comment. I especially love the use of the word “FLOW”. It’s the secret to many things don’t you think? It goes with what you said “downstream’ as well, like in the law of attraction! I feel you girl.
Have a great trip..


7 KellieHosaka March 13, 2011 at 5:28 am

Aloha Laura,
I totally agree wit you! We are the leaders people are looking for! Once we stop looking around and just start BEing ourselves, everything flows! It’s actually so much easier, like going downstream!

Thank you for that awesome video also!

Kellie :)


8 Lorri March 5, 2011 at 6:21 pm

Great post Laura and Larry!!

I went for a brisk walk this morning with me myself and I proclaiming myself the leader I was born to be! It felt outstanding!! I couldn’t stop smiling! :D I think when we get into the habit of self-talk and believing ourselves to be the leader we imagine then it will certainly come about!!


9 Larry & Laura Morris March 15, 2011 at 8:12 pm

Hi Lorri
you are so right, it’s all about believing!! If we can not only believe, but see the picture in our mind and attach the FEELINGS , thoughts and emotions we wants to occur, we are more than halfway there. Good for you for getting out and walking too. You are charging your picture with ENERGY!!
I appreciate your feedback and comments


10 LeeAnn Townsend March 4, 2011 at 4:29 pm

Thank you so much for this inspiring post! This is also the first time I have been to your site. Great job! I really have enjoyed looking around. Having confidence and believing in yourself will allow you to have continued success in whatever you do. :)


11 Larry & Laura Morris March 15, 2011 at 8:14 pm

Hi LeeAnn
We really appreciate that you took the time to come by and check out our blog. We hope you’ll be back and find more to enjoy! It’s indeed all about BELIEF..


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13 Christine Casey March 3, 2011 at 8:32 pm

Let me start by stating THANK YOU! I came across your post in my News Feed sometime last week (one of the great things about Facebook is friends sharing their info!), and it’s been on my mind ever since…

Reading through the post, I had an “ah ha!” moment in that I shifted my thinking, and in turn pushed me over the edge in my deciding to join a new business venture in direct sales/NM. As the title stated, it got me FIRED UP! Appreciate your post (and I very much believe that there is no such thing as coincidence is timing is everything).
;-) Christine


14 Larry & Laura Morris March 15, 2011 at 8:17 pm


wow! I am so honored that I played such an integral role in your life decision. I am going through a similar time, and it’s what spurred me to write the article in the first place. I am very FIRED UP right now about many things. I really appreciate that you have expressed your passion and gone out and done something about it.

This is YOUR TIME…Make it happen girl!

You are Magnificent and can do anything



15 Teresa Ivory February 26, 2011 at 1:36 am

Wow, I’m fired up! Very inspiring post. Being a leader really does draw other leaders in training to you, doesn’t it? Kind of a birds of a feather flock together – if you can handle and old adage that is!


16 Larry & Laura Morris March 15, 2011 at 8:26 pm

Hi Teresa, Yes, it never fails. The more you throw yourself into the leadership role, and “step up”, the more the Universe will give you opportunities to be one! It works in reverse as well.
Thanks for the comment


17 Welcomehere February 25, 2011 at 5:42 pm

Hello Larry and Laura
I found you on YouTube so I thought I would come on over to your blog and read a post.

This last week I had a heavy hitter call me on a three way call, this call was an unplanned planned by me.

The questions that he asked me was this: How many people have you sponsored? How much money do you
make in a month? How many bp does my organization make in a month? How much bp does my Whole Company make a month (like I know that)? Ha! Ha!

Thank goodness for good training because 6 months ago this call might have blown me away. I decided instead of being
a bit angry for being set up in this type of call, to lean into them with love, and caring. I think I did okay. I found a professional way of answering the questions without answering the questions, if you know what I mean. I came back
to both of them with questions.

The call ended up with me taking the platform speaking with love and bring it around to a three way call with my “way up-line.” I have learned to lean into people (it works every time) listen to people (even if you don’t agree which gives you more time to prepare something worth value to say back).

Lead with love….it will build relationships, and the know, like, and trust factor.

Nice to meet you on YouTube
Debby Beachy
Wisconsin (-:


18 Anonymous February 25, 2011 at 1:07 pm

Very inspirational post. Braveheart is one of my FAVORITE movies, You are so right when you believe in yourself, nothing can take it away. It belongs to you. When you are sure of yourself, what you choose to do is easier … everyone is a leader. Robin Sharma writes about that in his new book :The Leader Who Had No Title”. It’s all about discovering who you are.. great post :-)


19 social bookmarking February 24, 2011 at 11:20 pm

Thanks for a great message. I have always thought it is funny that people know exactly what is right and what is wrong with just about anything, while sitting on the couch in their living room. But as soon as they step outside of their own safe place that wisdom has vanished. To be a leader you need to have the courage to speak up regardless of where you are.


20 The GREAT Edward February 20, 2011 at 5:03 am

YES YES YES! For sure… want to attract leaders to yourself, BEcome one first. Great message of simple wisdom.

Thanks for sharing with us.

Make it a great day!
God Bless,
The GREAT Edward!


21 Beth Allen February 19, 2011 at 5:19 pm

LOVE this post, Larry & Laura! Your mentor gave you the best advice ~ the only way to attract leaders is to BE the leader you want to attract! Eminate the LIGHT and the FIRE….absolutely! It is really all about our posture. And the video ROCKED! I’ve added it as a favorite on my YouTube channel…big kudos to Matthew!

Thanks for the great inspiration here. :)


22 Susan Redmon February 18, 2011 at 2:51 pm

Another great post! The video perfectly visualizes your point.


23 Bill Wetherington February 16, 2011 at 2:34 am

Wow, wow, wow….what an incredible article….video was great too.

If that can’t get you pumped up, then nothing will!

Thanks for the nice article and video!!!



24 Melodie Kantner February 14, 2011 at 8:57 pm

I totally agree. You have to become what you are wanting to attract. When I got started in my company, 14 years ago, I had a cassette training tape that was on posture. I wore that thing out listening to it daily. It helped me realize, early in my business, that I needed to get rid of the desperate desire to sponsor people. It was an important lesson in the early days and one I think all new distributors need.


25 Steven Dean February 14, 2011 at 6:44 pm

Loved the video and I really loved the article as well. This article is basically the answer to everyone’s problems actually. Everyone is searching for a leader and they should just look in the mirror and realize that they are a natural born leader. People’s belief do need to be much higher than what it is. If you study all the great leaders in our industry they all have a certain kinda something that they all share. Confidence, certainty, and among other things. When you start to achieve success even an increment amount. That is what will boost your confidence and start bringing forth the leader in you. Thanks for sharing

Steven Dean


26 Lori Mooney February 14, 2011 at 5:28 am

What an inspiring article! All that you say is so true. We often wait for others to spark the flame when in fact we need to be the ones igniting it!



27 Time and Financial Freedom February 13, 2011 at 12:07 am

I absolutely love this post Laura! You are awesome in writing. We are on the same page as always. Posture, we have the belief and the solid conviction of where we are at and what we have our hands on.
I love the video. It is all about YOU. Who you are and how you stand solid and committed.


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