“If you were forced to stop working because of a family crisis, would you continue to receive your income?”
It was a regular day like any other in June 2011. I was sitting at my desk working, when I got a “call waiting” saying that my daughter in law had been life flighted to the hospital for emergency brain surgery. She miraculously lived through the surgery to relieve a large tumor creating extreme pressure on her skull, but the resulting damage and cancer treatment has been harder on her than any one person should have to endure. Bless her heart, she is an amazing person, but we all have grieved to realize not at all the same person. The following 7 months were like the scariest, roughest roller coaster you’ve ever riden for our entire family, and most especially those caring for my daughter in law on a daily basis. I know now that I personally had absolutely NO IDEA how cancer affects an entire family, until you go through it yourself. -
Tragedy Changes You and Those You Care About Forever
The love that has surrounded our family has been huge. We have received a ton of support, prayers and kindnesses from people who hardly knew us. Many miracles sprang out of this terrible tragedy, such as renewed relationships, healed relationships, and personal growth. Close relationships have grown much closer, and the family as a whole is much tighter as a unit. We’ll never be the same. It’s most definitely NOT the way we want these things to occur, but we take comfort that at least something beautiful arose from such sadness.
Life has been anything but normal for the last 6 months, and this lack of normalcy has bled over into other areas of our lives without our control. Our daughter in law, son and their little family is our top priority. If you are (or were) a visitor of this blog, a member of the TSA tribe or TSA Facebook group or a follower of ours, you might have noticed we’ve been under the radar, or off the social media channels for quite some time. We figured you might want to know.
To make things a little more interesting, my mother was diagnosed with cancer during this time, and a lifelong illness of mine reared its ugly head called fibromyalgia. It comes and goes, is brought on by extreme stress, and was the most painful bout my doctor has seen me have. I am happy to say I am much, much better! My dear mother passed away December 20th, 2011.
Residual Income Got Us Though It All
Family always comes first and work was just not possible during this difficult time. When you are SELF-Employed you can make judgement calls like that. If you had a job and a boss, do you think you’d have a choice? What a RELIEF it was to know that ALL THE WHILE our “mailbox money” or network marketing income KEPT US GOING!! It paid us
for work we had done once, and will continue to. We could not have imagined going to a traditional “J.O.B” during this challenging time in our lives!! Instead, we could count on going to our mailbox and opening checks. THAT’S what we call FREEDOM
So the point I am making is that we essentially took a 6 month leave of absence…and mlm saved our bacon!
If you’re a Network Marketer you hear over and over, “There’s nothing like experiencing the power of residual in your life.” If you currently receive checks in your mailbox, or emails from income streams, then you know what a rush it is to see it grow. My wish for every aspiring home business professional, is that they get to experience true “mailbox money” that continues to grow in their career. If you work hard, pay your dues, and follow a proven system, you cannot help but get there. It may take some time, and with the right combination of personal development, a great product, company, systems, tools, leadership, and good old fashioned sweat… it will happen. The only way you will fail is if you quit.
It never occurred to me that we would PROVE our industry in this manner. Don’t get me wrong, we never doubted it for a second!! It’s just plain A-W-E-S-O-M-E to see it at work when the chips are down. I’m more grateful to be a professional Network Marketer than I have ever been in my career. The concept of residual was there for us when we needed it most, because WE put in the HOURS. Don’t ever forget that point. You cannot get into MLM and take a free ride. Most compensation plans are set up in such a way so that you have to stay qualified to get paid. Staying qualified simply means you have to purchase a certain amount from your company and show your loyalty to them AND show your down line that you are in the game as their up line. It would never be fair if people could get into a company pay once and then get paid on all the people below them year after year, without ever spending another dime.
Think about your family for a moment. Are you prepared for a crisis? If you had to stop working would your paycheck continue to come in? Would it keep your bills paid? These are some serious questions that deserve some serious thought. I hope I’ve made you think a little, and am grateful for your readership!
If you would like to learn more about how we created a business that sustained us for 6 months without working, and those checks just kept on coming…CLICK HERE and we’ll get with you and show you!
Laura & Larry
P.S Since Writing this post on February 9, we were informed that during the time period I speak of in this article, we qualified for a TRIP TO JAPAN! How did we do it? We built a very large working, worldwide organization over the past 5 years, that produces hundreds of thousands in volume month after month. Ample amounts of Mailbox Money comes in to many of THESE Hard working team members as well! The exciting all expenses paid leadership trip to Japan leaves on March 14th. We will be posting photos on facebook for everyone to see while we tour our factory, the beautiful Ryuku Castle, in The Cornerstone for Peace in Okinawa, Osaka, and more! It’s qualifying for rank advancements, awards and trips that makes working with a team in network marketing long term so rewarding.












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dear laura, thank you so much for the update. i too fell off the blog-planet. after having my daughter last summer i took lots of time to figure out how to proceed with my mlm, and am just now getting back into the swing of things. thank goodness for that “mailbox money”. i’ve been able to be with caitlin everyday and not worry about my income. what a blessing…
love to you and larry!
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Sorry to hear about the situation with your daughter n law cancer as well as your mother’s passing. My family is pitching in to take care of my stepmom. She has stage 3 ovarian cancer.
I joined TSA in November, so I guess… welcome back.
I am not in MLM, but my youngest sister is an IBO in Amway and she is in college. In fact my dad got out and asked his downline to move under her…and they did. Those monthly checks work great to pay off whatever her scholarship cannot cover. So, I see a good reason for MLM, but I would not be in it because my passion is for web design.
I am so sorry to hear about everything, but I am glad you shared your story. You are an inspiration. I agree being a network marketer is the best career for me, too.
I am sending positive energy your way to continue to help you through such difficult times.
One more thing, glad you are back.
Jaden
Thanks Jaden… I consider you a friend and blog tribe colleague, and your wishes mean a lot to me. Thank you for sending positive energy our way. We still have a ways to go and we could use all the good vibes, prayers and energy we can get.
Yes, network marketing IS the deal!
Your friend
Laura
Hi Laura, no wonder you weren’t present on the internet much in the last 6 months! What an ordeal you’ve been through. Good to hear your daughter in law is getting better and sorry to hear about your mother passing away Laura. And, I know what you mean about the residual income coming in, I’ve been in other situations (not tragic ones) where I have really appreciated those checks coming every month or week.
Nice to see you back again Laura, regards from Julieanne
Hi Julieanne,
Thank you for your acknowledgement that I’ve been missed! It truly is an amazing thing when you get those checks! I appreciate your kindness and good thoughts.
Best,
Laura
Sorry to hear all your family has been through. It is wonderful to have the residual income built so that it can be there regardless of what is happening in your life. I have experienced it and my parents are going through it right now. It’s such a good feeling knowing money is coming in even if you are ill.
Hi Melodie,
I can’t tell you how many marketers have related to my story with one of their own family members in some kind of health crisis. I am so sorry that your parents are having challenges. I put the word “comfort” in the title for this exact reason, and it sounds like you experienced it first hand. Good thing better days are upon us!
Your Friend,
Laura
First let say how sorry I am to have read of the challenges in your life. Unfortunately, I know exactly what you have (are still) going though having experienced a similar challenge when my wife was diagnosed with breast cancer. As a husband, my life was changed completely and if it had not been for residual income built over the years because of my online business, we wouldn’t have been able to manage.
Hey Stevie
I am so sorry to hear that about you wife and hope things are better now. That’s comforting to know that we have that in common. You know what I mean, and although it’s a “crappy” way to find out how crucial a residual is, it sure is wonderful to have! Thanks for stopping by to read and comment!
Your friend,
Laura
Been thinking of you often Laura!! Miss you on our tribe calls! Glad to hear that you had the income to make it work… I can’t imagine the stress not having that would have given you.
You have had quite the year. God Bless.
Holly
Hi Holly,
I appreciate your kind thoughts. It’s nice to be missed. Having that income was a blessing indeed! I don’t know what we would have done…you’re right the stress was already terrible, and worrying about money was not something we need. We feel truly blessed.
Thanks Holly
Laura
Of course I remember you both, and while I’m sorry for what you went through I’m very happy for you that it’s all worked out. Congratulations on the success of your business, and for all you do to help others achieve the same.
Hi Marty!!
I love all your stuff as well! I am so happy to be back reading your blog too! Thanks for your kind wishes. I look forward to playing and working together with you in TSA and doing great things!
Laura
Laura,
What a nice read. Your story is very touching and I wish you and your family all the best.
I agree with you that having financial freedom is very nice. It allows us to do things like what you talked about…or take a vacation that we normally couldn’t with a normal JOB. Hopefully, more people will see it your way and look into their dreams.
Thanks for the post.
Hi Gary!
Thanks for stopping by and taking time to read this post, and for your nice comments. You are right, there is nothing like the freedom of a home business.
Laura
Hi Jacob,
You said it!! There’s nothing like residual income when it keeps on coming!! I wish everyone could experience it if even a week, so they would work hard enough to never lose it. Yes, “Firing your boss” is the best! We both became “psychologically unemployable” a long time ago!!
Thanks
Laura
Hi Laura, What a story. It happened to us also. My husband and I were off the radar for 7 months care taking my father in law in our home with hospice care. The world just takes a different turn. I am so Grateful we have our own business, because that kept us going and we were there to be with our loved one all through the process. In fact, his hospice nurse was undergoing the same thing with her father. But she had a JOB. Her father passed before my father in law and she was filled with guilt and remorse. She couldn’t be by his side, he was in hospice and she had to drive an hour each day to visit him.
Proven Fact: Working for ourselves gives us the opportunity for any pitfalls in life.
Thanks for your hear filled post and I will keep you in my prayers,
Donna
Hi Donna,
It sounds like we have a lot in common! I am so glad that you and David could be with his father during that precious time. When years go by you look back and will remember that you were there, with him, by his side. That’s why I wrote this story. We both had a kind of time freedom most of us don’t really talk about. I mentioned that my mother passed away as well during this time. Hospice came to her home, and I spent about ten days with her along with my sister until she finally passed. Thank you for your sweet thoughts and prayers.
Hi Laura
What a great Post ,and story to tell.
I wish every person that sit at a JOB with no dream and hope for tomorrow can
read your blog post.
I want to shout it out to the world what you just said, it is time for a wake up call
to the world , get a MLM business or dream to follow it mite help you to get there and help you out
as it help Laura and her family.
Regards
Theuns
Theuns,
What a great testament to mlm you just made! You have such enthusiasm, that I think I’d like to bottle it and hand it out at opportunity meetings and put it starter kits! i appreciate your kind thoughts and am so happy to work with you again!
Kindly,
Laura
Laura I am so sorry to hear about your mother and thrilled that you could spend time with your daughter-in-law. It’s good to have you back and I know you will beat this afflication you are struggling with.
Joyce
Hi Joyce,
Thank you for your kind wishes. I consider you a trusted colleague and am glad to be back.
Warmly,
Laura
It is nice to get residual income for the job you do right once. Not relying on entities to cover you. You’ are doing great! Stay up.